Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts

Tuesday, 15 March 2016

Love yourself first.

Yellow Flag.

Why you must learn to love, accept and be proud of yourself first in order to meet,
date and keep the kind of women you've always ...

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To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Saturday, 25 July 2015

Police Killings by the Numbers

Police Killings by the Numbers
Peter Kaufman

If there has been one dominant, sociologically-relevant story in the news lately,
it has arguably been the treatment of African Americans by the police.
 From Michael Brown in Missouri to Eric Garner in Staten Island to the McKinney, Texas,
swimming pool incident, there is a heightened awareness, an ongoing conversation,
and a growing sentiment of anger about how race influences policing.
As increasing attention has been devoted to this social problem, and more questions
have been raised about it, there have been calls for greater accountability from law enforcement.
In particular, many people want to know how many citizens are killed each year by police officers. Unfortunately, because the United States government does not keep a systematic record
of these deaths, this data has been either unavailable or unreliable. That is, until now.
An ambitious project was started recently by the U.S. branch of the U.K. news organization, 
The Guardian. The project, appropriately called The Counted, is an attempt to document
every person killed by law enforcement in the United States this year.
Using their own reporting as well as crowd sourced information,
The Counted database offers details about every police fatality in 2015,
including the victim’s name, age, race, gender, location, cause of death,
and whether or not they were armed.
The Guardian recognizes that The Counted is “an imperfect work in progress” and as such,
is regularly updated and revived. Still, since its launch in the beginning of June,
The Counted has garnered quite a bit of attention. 
Members of Congress have pointed to this new project as an important momentum builder
in the efforts to create a permanent national database of police killings.
Sociologists should take note too. Despite its imperfections, this database offers us a wonderful tool for both research and teaching. Although it is ostensibly being created to answer the question
of how many people are killed each year at the hands of the police,
The Counted is also a generator for important sociological questions.
Knowing about these lethal encounters is one thing; it’s equally important to understand
why they occur, how they occur, and whether they occur in other nations.
The question-generating aspect of The Counted was illustrated recently in one of the first articles that The Guardian published about their new project. Jamiles Lartey, a reporter for the news agency (and, full disclosure, a former student of mine), used the current data from The Counted
to make some interesting comparisons between the United States and other countries:
Police in the U.S. fatally shot 59 people in the first 24 days of 2015.
In England and Wales combined, 55 people have been shot by police in the past 24 years. 
In the first five months of 2015, police in Stockton, California fatally shot 3 people.
In Iceland, there has been one fatal shooting by police in the past 71 years.
More people have been shot and killed each week by the police in the United States this year
than are typically killed by German police in an entire year.
Police in the U.S. fatally shot 97 people in March 2015.
In Australia, 94 people were officially reported being killed by police during the 19 years
between 1992-2011.
Police in California fatally shot 72 people in the first five months of 2015.
In Canada, the average number of fatal police shootings per year is 25.
Antonio Zambrano-Montes, who was found throwing rocks at cars in Pasco, Washington,
had 17 bullets fired at him by police in his fatal shooting.
In Finland, police officers fired 6 bullets during all of 2013.
There is no doubt that these differences between the United States and other countries are startling. But we must keep in mind that these comparisons are based on raw data that merely describe
what is happening; they do not tell us why this is happening. If you are thinking sociologically
about these comparisons, and about the database in general, then you are probably
finding yourself flooded with sociological questions.

Here are some that came to my mind:
What is about the culture and social structure of places like Finland and Iceland that make it so rare for police to resort to deadly force? How do the police and the public interact in these countries? What are the defining characteristics of the relationship between the police and the public, and how (and why) is this different than in the United States? 
How did the U.S. become so much more of a violent society than its Western counterparts? If deadly force by the police in the U.S. is justified, on what grounds is it defended? If deadly force by the police in the U.S. is not justified, why does it occur in law enforcement agencies around the country?
Why is police violence drastically different in states of comparable size such as Oklahoma (population 3.8 million and 23 people killed by police this year) versus Connecticut (population 3.6 million and 1 police killing this year)? Are police tactics, training academies, or law enforcement cultures different in states with a higher number of killings or is there something else to account for these disparities?
Whether you are a student of sociology or a social researcher, you can mine this data to draw inferences. You can try to decipher between probabilities and certainties, between causation and correlation, and between realities and assumptions.  As a catalyst for future research, a pedagogical tool for sociological learning, and a clarion call for social activism, The Counted database offers many possibilities. I encourage you to take a look at this evolving website, see what sociological questions come to mind, and then set out to provide an intellectually sound answer to your questions.

http://www.everydaysociologyblog.com/2015/06/police-killings-by-the-numbers.html


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I can Turbo Charge Read a novel 6-7 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
I can TCR an instructional/academic book around 20 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube  
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube

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aspects of regular, each-word, down-e ach-line reading and education.
Turbo Charged Reading uses these skills significantly faster, more efficiently and with excellent memory.
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com               Personal business development growth.
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com         just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Sunday, 19 July 2015

TAT pose and stoppers for weight loss ~ with Tapas Fleming

Lily-of-the-valley is nice and slim and healthy.

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The second time, the 'pictures / feelings' were kinda fuzzy.


Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube 
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?
Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
www.turbochargedreading.blogspot.com    for extra TCR information
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com               which takes advantage of the experience and expertise of others.
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com         just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Friday, 17 July 2015

'Divorce was thrown back and forth, becoming the trump card of threats'


'Divorce was thrown back and forth, becoming the trump card of threats' 
- How Relate saved my military marriage

He and I did things very quickly. We had our first date a few days after meeting, became engaged 
on a frosty Christmas morning a few months later and married whilst pregnant the following year. 
In the first eighteen months of marriage, we relocated with the military three times. It had been a whirlwind of wedding, morning sickness, work trips, packing, un-packing, hellos and goodbyes, births, becoming parents and yet more packing and unpacking. 
In the first couple of months, I threw myself into being the best darn housewife you could 
shake a tin of furniture polish at. The house gleamed and smelt of shake ’n vac, the dog 
was walked, cakes were baked, meals were prepared and Baby was happy and content, 
sleeping through the nights allowing He and I to eat dinner together most nights with a glass of wine. I smiled a lot. Because why wouldn’t I? It was all rather pretty on the outside.
"In the first couple of months I threw myself into being the best darn housewife you could shake a tin of furniture polish at."
What I wasn’t prepared to contend with was the resentment bubbling and fizzing inside me 
from my chest to the darkest depths of my soul. The finality of leaving MY job, MY city, MY friends, MY lifestyle. Where was MY medal?! Where was MY parade?! 
The fear of never, ever being able to identify with myself as a financially independent, ambitious, awesome, sexy woman again took my inner breath away. 
One sweltering late summer’s day, this all came convulsing out, spewing like hot lava 
from within -  frothing with anger and hurt and bitterness and resentment. The fury was unleashed. The injustice I had been feeling let itself known with an almighty roar. I missed having 
my own money, I missed my friends, I missed my spontaneity, I missed feeling important, 
I missed my soul feeling full of life, buzzing with excited energy and endless possibilities. 
The storm thundered through the balmy afternoon until the cool early evening, 
ending in a pile of heaving shoulders and panting, gasping sobs. We spent the night apart. 
The following day was one of mourning, for the both of us. It felt like the end. 
We had been, in one moment, best friends, giggling, sharing, dreaming – now, we were strangers who followed a daily routine, digging themselves deeper into the dark, musty rut.
Divorce was thrown back and forth, becoming the trump card of threats, until one day 
He and I took a leap of faith in each other, bound by the love for Baby, and found our saving grace: Relate Counselling.
The hour we spent with our Relate counsellor was the safest I had felt in a long time. 
My shoulders dropped and my face lost its pinched look. She mediated our conversations 
so that the end result was that we could both confidently lay bare our souls without getting defensive and flouncing out as had previously happened when we had attempted drunken self-counsel. 
"The hour we spent with our Relate counsellor was the safest I had felt in a long time."
She prompted with questions and acknowledged when each of us made valid points or contributions. It felt wonderful to have someone acknowledge that we were going through a rough patch 
and validated our thoughts and that it was so, utterly, completely normal.
Our arguments were normal and the topics of arguments were normal. 
My feelings of inadequateness and anxiety were normal. His feelings of regret and financial burdens were normal. Our fears and judgement were normal. Becoming a military wife does essentially mean losing a bit of yourself, because your life centres around your husband, his work and his priorities. NORMAL. She reminded us that it was Thursday, not Doomsday! 
What wasn’t normal was the lack of communication. Talk, people! 
Neither of us knew what the other felt, which is strange when you trust that person enough 
to take their name and create a new life with them, but out of fear of upsetting the boat 
you cannot have a chat about how you feel … or don’t feel?!
"Not only did I feel as if I could see my best friend again, but we also realised that we had to stop blaming each other for the current state of our relationship."
That damp Thursday evening walking away from the therapist’s office, we turned a corner, 
quite literally, into the closest pub for a nerve settling vino blanco. But figuratively too - not only did I feel as if I could see my best friend again, but we also realised that we had to stop blaming 
each other for the current state of our relationship 
and more importantly I had to stop blaming Him for my unhappiness. 
As much as the adjustment to becoming a military wife has been - and will continue to be – epic,
it has also dawned on me that I’ve been gifted the freedom and security to become whomever I want. Life is a long, luscious, exciting journey and you don’t have to fulfil all of your dreams immediately. 
It is a relief when you finally realise that. The anxiety in your soul dissipates.
For now, I’m working on being content with the fact that for the next few years 
I want to immerse myself in our Baby’s exploration of this wonderful world and fill our existence 
with adventures and stories and bubbles in the bath and nourishing our minds and bodies 
with good news and good food. And most importantly, so much laughter. 

http://www.relate.org.uk/blog/2015/4/27/divorce-was-thrown-back-and-forth-becoming-trump-card-threats-how-relate-saved-my-military-marriage

Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube 
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?
Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
www.turbochargedreading.blogspot.com    for extra TCR information
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com               which takes advantage of the experience and expertise of others.
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com         just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Friday, 10 July 2015

"Overcoming Fear" - Motivational Video

This is a hardhead aka knapweed, doesn't fear anything :)




Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube 
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?
Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
www.turbochargedreading.blogspot.com    for extra TCR information
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com               which takes advantage of the experience and expertise of others.
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com         just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Thursday, 9 July 2015

Top 6 “I Have A Bad Feeling About This” for Parents

Just pass through and deal with it, life's always been like that.


Top 6 “I Have A Bad Feeling About This” for Parents
Posted on  by Idaho Dad

As parents, it seems like not a day goes by when we don’t get some sense of dread
or disappointment involving or surrounding our children.
Thankfully, these feelings are usually minor.
We get over them quickly, or at least with very little pain and suffering.

With apologies to George Lucas, here are my
Top 6 “I Have A Bad Feeling About This” For Parents

1.       The most common one occurs while sitting on the toilet,
usually after you’ve concluded your business,
when you look over to see that there is no toilet paper on the roll.
How many times do we have to tell our kids to replace the paper after they’ve used it up?

2.       Standing in the grocery store checkout line,
you’ve just unloaded a heaping cart full of perishables,
the cashier is halfway through your items, and you realize you left your wallet at home.

3.       It’s lunchtime and your hungry kids are very happy
because you’re fixing macaroni and cheese.
As the pasta softens in the boiling water,
you reach into the fridge to find that someone used up all the milk at breakfast.

4.       It’s been a long day, you’re dead tired,
the kids went to bed on time, and your bed is looking mighty comfy.
You lay your weary head down on the ultra-soft pillow
and you just know that this will be the best night of sleep ever.
And then, in the distance, you hear a soft sound, barely recognizable at first.
There it is again, a choke followed by a growl,
and then the unmistakable splashing sound of vomit
being spewed about the bed and carpet.

5.       Your toddler walks up to you with the biggest smile on his face,
along with blue permanent marker on his nose, arms, and fingers.
He wants you to come to his room to see his cool new artwork.

6.       You’re halfway through unloading the dishwasher
when you suddenly realize it hasn’t been run.
Good luck remembering which dishes you just put away.

Have any “bad feelings” to add to the list?

http://pkmeco.com/familyblog/2015/03/top-6-i-have-a-bad-feeling-about-this-for-parents/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+AFamilyRunsThroughIt+%28Idaho+Dad%29

Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
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How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?
Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
www.turbochargedreading.blogspot.com    for extra TCR information
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com               which takes advantage of the experience and expertise of others.
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com         just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Thursday, 2 July 2015

Unstoppable Women

Sainfoin, French: sain = whole-some, foin = hay

Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube  
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?
Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
www.turbochargedreading.blogspot.com    for extra TCR information
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com               which takes advantage of the experience and expertise of others.
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com         just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”


Wednesday, 1 July 2015

The Problem With Body Art

The Problem With Body Art

Houston, we have a problem. Or do we?
See, I like tattoos. I don’t have one, but that’s because I can’t figure out what to get
and/or where to place it. Not because I hate tattoos. In fact, I admire folks who have them.
That being said, it’s been my experience that HR hates tattoos
and I’ve been giving this a lot of thought lately.
Here’s the definitive guide to how HR pros interact with tattoos.
HR generally looks for four criteria before making a snap judgement regarding your tattoo.

Size of tattoo.
Did you go with the quarter size lucky charm or the softball sized lucky charm?
Size is important… let’s put that argument to bed. (Damn, I crack myself up.)
Size of your tattoo speaks directly to your judgment.
What were you thinking at that particular moment?
Was your decision making impaired by the amount of tequila shots, etc?
They will assume so if you have a life-sized basketball tattoo on your forearm.
Moreover, and especially given today’s tattoo removal technology,
if you still have that life-sized basketball tattoo on your forearm – that speaks volumes
about your judgement. Not just at the time of tattoo inception but continued poor judgement.
Anyone can make a bad decision, but only morons live daily with them plastered on their forearm.

Placement of tattoo.
So you went with the Greek goddess. I totally get that… she’s hot and important in Greek lore.
I get that. How did you make the decision on where to place her
on your less than perfect human form? That’s what HR is going to judge you on.
Somewhere secret behind clothes OR on your wrist or neck.
What that tells HR about you is how willing you are to comply with the rules.
Don’t get me wrong… sometimes HR wants to hire a renegade. But more often than not,
if they can “see” your tattoos, they have already secretly written you off
as a future problem employee. Visible = problem.

Symbolism of tattoo.
The “what” is important! Did you go with Jesus or Lucifer?
Did you go with pagan symbolism or Cherokee (assuming you are) symbolism?
If HR can see your tattoos you might already be in hot water,
but your ability to tell a story about your art speaks volumes.
Getting a baby Jesus on your ankle in South Beach after an all-nighter “just cause” tells a story
about you. Getting inked up with the birth date of your dearly departed Na Na
tells yet another story. Assuming HR can identify your artwork,
be on the ready to tell a compelling story as to why you chose your artwork.
Heavy emphasis on compelling.

Quantities of tattoos.
I think most HR pros would forgive one tattoo. Maybe even two.
But 16 tattoos, I think not.
HR will judge on the number of tattoos you have
as they think more tattoos equal addictive personality.
Yep, they will liken your taste in ink to someone who uses heroin.
Seems kind of crazy, but it’s as true as the day is long. Even the most hard core HR pro
will “forgive” an indiscretion but more than five tattoos is NOT an indiscretion.
It’s an addiction. Obligatory Charter message…
if you don’t get help at Charter please get help somewhere. That just never gets old.

All four points above are important by themselves, but in combination they can
either be compelling or career ending. Think: the eight softball sized devils on both forearms
vs. the eight penny sized renditions of your grandparents and great grandparents over your heart.
8 tattoos… HR thinks of that person differently. Are you criminal or hopeless romantic?
I’ll leave you with these questions… either consciously or subconsciously;
do you judge folks with tattoos? What does tattoo acceptance (or lack thereof)
say about your company culture? Lastly, what about HR pros who have tattoos,
what does that say about them and/or the organization they represent?

[Originally published on 1/17/2012 via Fistful of Talent]

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/problem-body-art-william-tincup?trk=hb_ntf_MEGAPHONE_ARTICLE_POST


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Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?
Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
www.turbochargedreading.blogspot.com   for extra TCR information
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com              takes advantage of the experience and expertise of others.
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com        just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”


Friday, 19 June 2015

Coming Out of the Closet

It's OK for comfrey to hand its head as that's just right for it.


Coming out is a big moment.
You're letting someone else into a part of your life that few have tread—
a secret that you might have carried a long time. Some of you may have lied,
pretended to be something you're not. Others may simply have kept silent.
If you're lucky, you have an incredible support system built in, made up of people
who love you regardless. Today on WellCast, we're talking about that life-changing moment
of telling someone that you're gay. We'll help you prepare for that moment,
whenever you decide to take it, and give you some resources to turn to, should you need them.


Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube 
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?
Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blog:
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com               gives many ways for you to work with the stresses of life
www.turbochargedreading.blogspot.com    for extra TCR information
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com         just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Sunday, 26 April 2015

How To Overcome Shyness - Transform Yourself Into An Extrovert

These chickweed flowers tend to be overlooked, 
but once you start to study them they have their own fascination.

How To Overcome Shyness - Transform Yourself Into An Extrovert

Video Summary:
Shyness is not innate. We can experience shyness in various settings, typically more acutely in some than in others. Don't label yourself as a shy person. Your shyness is reversible, not a life sentence you must drag around with you forever.

Shyness tends to emerge when we suffer from self-image issues that make us overly worried about what others think. It can appear as lack of eye contact, stuttering, or inability to approach others. One technique to overcome shyness is to care less about what others think. The best method for addressing shyness is to leave your house more. Become more social. For example, join a group with similar interests.

If you're shy at work, strike up friendships with one or two co-workers whom you invite to coffee or lunch. Gradually expand the circle to more people. Interacting in a casual environment will help you be more comfortable sharing your opinions in meetings and cubicles.

To become less shy with the opposite sex, go out with your friends at night, and imitate them, if you feel uncertain. Go bowling or to a concert if not to a bar or a club. Practice being less shy by chatting up service workers who assist you at the cashier counter or the restaurant. They're paid to be nice to people -- you can start perfecting your conversation skills with them. They'll appreciate being treated like human beings, not robots.



Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube 
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?
Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blog:
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com                gives many ways for you to work with the stresses of life
www.turbochargedreading.blogspot.com    for extra TCR information

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Saturday, 15 February 2014

Whatever has Mountain Dew got to do with Memory, Learning and Confidence?

These gigantic tyres belong to the Bury St Edmund's Rugby Club. UK

Whatever has Mountain Dew got to do with Memory, Learning and Confidence?
M'reen Hunt

Mountain Dew was his language, his experience, his security.
My computer programmes, chocolate, purchased and created aids belonged to the confused world.

Memory.
While memory is built up in layers it is stored in bits in apparently random places and re-created each time it is recalled. I understand that a CD or DVD does not store information in a sequential pattern but in various segments across the disk; and yet the music or film is recalled in perfect order.
If you load information: a,b,c,d,e,f,g onto a disk and a little late your delete b, c and f then the next pieces of information you load will fill up those empty spaces first and not necessarily in linear order.
I think that this is one of the ways that a creative combination of ideas can emerge – eureka!
Additionally you can think of memory recall as a chain that has been build up of sequences.
If a link or segment is missing or defective then the whole cannot be recalled.
In such I cases I would say, “I read something somewhere that said something along the lines of ….”
Then they say that if you want to really know a subject then you teach it.
Into this statement is built in the detailed learning of the subject so that you can explain 
or demonstrate it externally and that repetition of knowledge builds in repeated practice.
Repetition or habit is one of five proposed learning gateways to the mind.
For these reasons when Inner Mind Reading you would elicit the information in sequence;
each layer building on the last and also being efficient in time as you do not elicit information
that is not to be used at this time. Also with each success you are building confidence.
There is also the state and none state theory of memory.
Followed by: where memory is stored; is it confined within your scull or in every cell of your body?
However, right now we are concerned with the memorising of information, clearly and long term.

Does memory come before learning?
I leave that for you to debate.
Learning is acquired in layers, by practice and with increasing confidence.
Confidence is being able to perform a skill whereas self esteem is having secure inner regard.
Learning can enter the mind / body by a proposed five routes:
Trauma, habit, hero worship (think pop stars, advertisements etc), authority figures (think parents, law, religion etc) and alpha (in hypnotherapy we use the authority of the self during the alpha state 
to access the other four areas of learning.)
The learning state of alpha is natural and starts to initiate as soon as you close your eyes or focus increasingly inwards on a subject, novel, film, conversation etc. In doing any of these activities
you could be considered to be in an enhanced environment. Each time you experience something your brain immediately starts laying down the foundations for its memory/recall and this requires a new neural network – or extra space on the CD. This is a purely physical matter; think of someone who’s been confined to bed and you recognise that their muscles atrophy or an elderly person
who’s hormones have altered and therefore does not have the capacity of the young or a person
who’s family history indicates a ‘weak’ heart; if any of these people increase their exercise then new muscles and veins etc are created. Similarly the great ‘they’ took a number of mice from their boring cage and put them into a cage with interesting activities. The enhanced activity mice stayed in this enriched environment for shorter and shorter periods of time so that eventually the scientists found that the building of neural networks started as soon as the mice entered the enriched environment.
It is not simply a case of use it or lose it but also of continuing or starting to build your abilities.
With Inner Mind Reading after you have poured all that information into your inner mind
and submitted a request for certain information that satisfied your purpose to be recalled for your first layer of learning recall you then get out of the way and give your neural network the chance
to organise itself and create the necessary new neurons.

Confidence.
I was engaged to help a 13 year old get past his problems with algebra (the fact that algebra is a complete mystery to me is irrelevant). My intent was to find the point just before, that is the point 
of his security. I got forward to fractions as the first point of insecurity, the frightening quagmire with 
no way out. I used my skills, my ingenuity and we got nowhere. I then grabbed the empty bottles 
of Mountain Dew he and his father had been drinking and put a fraction of water in one of them.
Mountain Dew was safe, it was part of his understanding and it had nothing to do with fractions.
Light dawned and very rapidly he was able to bring into his confidence the things his teachers 
had been trying to teach him. I find it interesting that when you work with critical incident de-briefing you take the person back to their point of confidence before the trauma, or series of little traumas, and ‘lock’ them into their confidence. Another description of this is to ‘anchor’ them in the safe experience of themselves before the distressing incident; or the last straw that broke the camel’s back if there has been a series of accumulating stresses.

How is this expressed in Inner Mind Reading?
By building up the sequence of Inner Mind Reading using the language with which you are most familiar, expressed as ‘your primary and secondary learning modalities’.
In English that means starting with the simple and building into the more detailed how-tos
of each stage: You pour the written information into your inner mind thus bypassing your eyes
and conscious mind, unexpectedly to your experience, at this stage the information 
is unavailable to you. You then do nothing while you let your inner mind create the necessary neurons while cataloguing this information. Finally you bring the information that is required at this moment into your conscious awareness.
These three little points are then built upon as your knowledge (learning), security (confidence)
and memory (recall) are extended (enhanced).
The usual last way of eliciting and recording the information you wish from your written material
is to create a mind map and mind maps are an excellent and efficient way for most people to store and recall information. Therefore we start creating mind maps during our first session as a mind map covers the learning styles (your safe language/experience) of being visual – I’ve seen some that are works of art. For those who learn best by hearing I tell stories that builds up dialogue in your mind and these stories are copied with a few words on the mind map. For the kiensthetic and those who like the security of notes and handouts you are physically building up a representation of your learning in a way that satisfies your personal experience while encompassing the necessary structure of the learning process. For those of you who use olfactory and gustatory points of reference
I’m afraid that you’ll have to add these yourself and are encouraged to do so.
So with our Inner Mind Reading partnership we start with the end in mind
and build in everything to ensure your success.

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