Showing posts with label ego. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ego. Show all posts

Friday, 24 July 2015

Enlightenment FAQ - Part 1 - All Your Questions Answered


Part1
Enlightenment FAQ - Answers to the most common questions
people have about spiritual enlightenment.


You can TCR music, poetry or self development material for internal knowing.
I can Turbo Charge Read a novel 6-7 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
I can TCR an instructional/academic book around 20 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube  
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube

Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?

Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
www.turbochargedreading.blogspot.com   All aspects of regular, each-word reading and education.                                                                          TurboChargedReading uses these skills significantly faster
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com            Personal business development growth.
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com      just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Tuesday, 19 May 2015

A path to “awakening”? A new model for resolving life issues?

Violets are considered to be shy - I don't think so.

A path to “awakening”? A new model for resolving life issues?
Steve Andreas

It isn’t often that a really new process is developed, in NLP, in therapy, or in spiritual groups either. Most are new names for old methods, or some new mix of the same ingredients.
Connirae is just making available a process that brings something new to the scene.
If you are interested in any type of personal growth, therapy, or spiritual growth,
we think you’re going to want to know about this one. 
The method, called the Wholeness Process,
is a precise and specific model for actually doing what many spiritual teachings talk about.
If you’ve explored Eastern spirituality, you’ve probably heard phrases like
“The small self is an illusion. Realize that you are a vast Self,” or
“Enlightenment comes through loss of the ego.” But what do such statements actually mean?
In this training you’ll learn a step-by-step process for dissolving the everyday sense of the ego.
The experience ranges from extremely ordinary to something that can be quite profound.
(You can read a few examples below.)
And what does this have to do with resolving our life problems?
Sometimes spiritual practices are taught and done in a way that actually creates a degree
of separation between meditative or profound states, and daily life.
People might enjoy deep meditative states, but find that their life issues don’t necessarily go away.
With the Wholeness process, there is a natural and immediate integration with daily living.
Our life issues can actually be doorways to the experience of this “vast self” spoken of – or just
a sense of affectionate presence and clarity. And the life issues are transformed in the process.
Some people have found that issues that hadn’t changed with years of effort,
are finally changing using the Wholeness Process.
And the results are more significant and ongoing than just solving problems.
If you choose to use this simple method as a life practice
(and this can happen in only a few minutes a day, once you’ve learned the method),
you will most likely experience a fundamental shift in how you are in the world.
Some describe it as having a growing sense of wellbeing, or peace, or joy.
And it’s the kind that enables us to be to increasingly interact with others from a place of wisdom, compassion, and humor. Rather than becoming some idea of “perfection”,
the wellbeing comes through a very specific, and increasingly effortless way of including 
and integrating everything that does – or could – arise in our experience.
What people are saying about the video training…
“The Wholeness Process is an effective, simple, and direct method for spiritual awakening,
as well as for your own personal development or therapy.
From my personal experience, I am delighted to recommend this program.
If I can follow it and get a lot from it, then I suspect you will too.”

— Shelle Rose Charvet, NLP Trainer, author of Words That Change Minds
“This simple process defintely works for me. While I’m doing it, no spiritual fireworks, « just »
a deep, healing peace. Over time, for now : not an « egolessness », but a very gradual loss
of attachment to « ego ». And that’s much more than I had hoped for when starting this program… 
With … deep gratitude,”
— Maarten Aalberse, Clinical Psychologist, France
Who can Benefit from the Wholeness Process?
Almost everyone can find significant benefits from learning and using the Wholeness Process.
Those wanting to relax more deeply or sleep better.
Those wanting to resolve emotional issues, relationship issues, or other life issues.
Those wanting to evolve as human beings.
Those wanting more peace, joy, and fulfillment in life.

1. The Wholeness Process: Online Streaming Video Training:
You get the full 2-days of this carefully-sequenced training, guiding you through the Wholeness Process. Connirae lays the groundwork for your unconscious to experience the method naturally
and easily. This is a professionally recorded and edited training, and includes demonstration 
and teaching of 4 Wholeness methods.
Day 1 Wholeness methods resolve many life issues, and create a deep relaxation
of the nervous system, plus greater wisdom, clarity, and compassion.
Day 2 Wholeness methods create a sense of substantialness and embodiment of the above
in the world. This happens through a deep resolution of what we can call “authority”,
in a new way that hasn’t been done before in any field of therapy or spirituality.

More comments from subscribers to the Wholeness Process streaming video training…
“Wow indeed… I hadn’t known that I had subscribed to such a process… Amazing. Bowing to it all.”
“It’s still early days for me, and yet I already see wonderful (and totally unexpected) effects…
Thank you,”
“This is amazing. I did the process just for 5 or 10 minutes at my computer.
The sensation [what I was working with] – was gone!
No content – just being aware of the sensation and trusting what is coming up.
The dissolving of the “I” (like fairy dust going down both sides of me and then up through my core
in a circle) and my awareness seemed to integrate with the original sensation
without me even making an effort.”
“I watched the first nine or ten videos. Wow, you really did it.
Made the gurus redundant… Much more I could say, of course.”
“Reclaiming inner authority [from the second day of the training] is an incredibly powerful application 
of this amazing process. …. It feels like a lot of internal shifting take place.”
“…[when we paused the video], suddenly I felt as if I were ‘pulled in’ to a pleasant
but unfamiliar state. I don’t know how to describe it, I have received hundreds of
Core Transformation sessions so I am familiar with profound states, but this was different.
Nothing much seemed to matter, I no longer felt the need to speak, and when [my wife] returned with her cup of tea and spoke to me, neither did I feel the need to speak to her, nor could I speak, the mouth wouldn’t open, although there were words there to be spoken if they could have been spoken. Noticing her concern, I decided I needed to find a way to speak to her to let her know
I was OK. Because I felt ‘pulled in’ I sort of looked for something to ‘hang on to’ to ‘pull myself out’, 
but there was nothing. After a few minutes of willing it and trying to attach myself to something ‘solid’ (gee, it’s hard to find words to describe it), I was able to mumble a few words
to let [my wife] know I was OK and that we should continue with the course.
Gradually, after a few more of these videos, I returned to normal but I was left with
an unusual feeling of joyfulness for the rest of the evening…”
“I am just beginning to listen to your series. It is a wonderful talent to be able to break things down 
to its true components.  Thanks for doing the work.”
“Wonderful, thanks Connirae, especially for the Reclaiming of Inner Authority.
Thanks also for this communication comment forum, it is wonderful to connect in these ways.”
2. The Wholeness Process: A Complete Individual Session (video download)
In this session Connirae guides a young woman in using the basic Wholeness Process
with a life issue she is facing, as well as in using it meditatively.
You’ll see how this single session made a “huge shift” for her.
Everyone can get a lot out of the individual session by “going along for the ride”
as this young woman experiences multiple transformations.
Therapists and coaches will find this session a valuable resource in how to use
the Wholeness material with clients who have no background.
Keep in mind that both your understanding of what’s happening, and your unconscious experience will be richer if you’ve already viewed Day 1 of the Streaming Video training.
3. Live Training
Attend the training live, with Connirae in any one of three locations — Boulder, CO, San Francisco, CA, and New York, NY.
All excellent opportunities to experience the method in person and deepen your results.
Where should I begin?
Begin with whatever best fits your learning style, and your schedule.
Each of the options above offers unique benefits.
If you’re already fairly sure you’ll want to learn and use the Wholeness Process,
Connirae suggests beginning with the Training (either streaming video or live).
The training will guide you through each aspect of the Wholeness Process in a systematic way.
Then you can use the individual session video as a way to consolidate your learnings.
If you’d like to start with something smaller, the individual session will give you a significant “taste” 
of what this is all about, for a very low cost.
Connirae recently presented the Wholeness Process to a large group
at the Psychotherapy Networker Conference, in Washington DC.
Most of the group were therapists with mindfulness background,
and the feedback was VERY positive. Some were saying “This is what mindfulness is all about,
but this method gives me a precise and dependable way to do it.”

http://realpeoplepress.com/blog/a-path-to-awakening-a-new-model-for-resolving-life-issues


Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube 
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?
Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blog:
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com               gives many ways for you to work with the stresses of life
www.turbochargedreading.blogspot.com    for extra TCR information
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com         just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Monday, 28 July 2014

How does hypnotherapy work?

How does hypnotherapy work? M’reen

Well, everything is about something else and without any artificial interventions such as medication, together, we help your subconscious and conscious minds to communicate freely and sort things out 
for your greatest benefit.
There really is no need to be held back by your past,                                                                                                           let it gently go and develop your own bright future. 

My expertise + your willingness = success.
You simply lie back with your eyes closed and simply let it flow, with no need to look at the issue,
as I talk to you weaving suggestion, metaphor and energy therapy.
Suggestion therapy: you accept yourself as … Great for habits, public speaking and much more. 
Metaphor: brilliant as you take what you need to resolve wide-ranging concerns in your life.
Energy: fantastic as your mind works like biological washing powder reaching
the entrenched grime and allowing it to be washed away.
Analytical therapy: successful as we go to the source of the problem and gently heal.



Your solutions lie within you.
I help you find the bridge between your conscious and subconscious minds.
Your problems and solutions are unique to you.
I facilitate only as your mind will not allow me to direct it.


The connection is missing between the logic of ‘I know this is stupid’ and the feeling of ‘I’m terrified’
and it’s my job to help you make this link as you are not aware of its existence, nor can the most sophisticated  microscope find it as it is pure energy, it found a way in so there is an easy way out.


Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
www.ourmindminds.blogspot.com               this takes advantage of the experience and expertise of others. 
www.turbochargedreading.blogspot.com      describes the steps to reading in the way your mind prefers.
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com         just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Saturday, 1 February 2014

Selfish!

                            My father carved these award winning shepherd's crooks. He is now 92.


Selfish
M'reen.
When people decide to become a client and work with their issue I ask them to fill in
a fact sheet and on the back of this personal details sheet is
The Magic Fairy Wish List and ‘Selfish’ is something a lot of people tick for the things
they wish to alter about themselves.
This wish list forms a potted history of your views of their place in your world
and most people seem to think that being selfish is a demerit,
that it says something mean about themselves that they wish to eliminate.
In fact ‘selfish’ is replaced by the computer generated synonyms with:-
self-centred, self-seeking, self-interested, egotistical, egotistic and egocentric
and with the antonym as altruistic which in turn can be replaced with:
unselfish, humane, selfless, and philanthropic.
A synonym is a word having the same significance as another,
the antonym being its opposite.

I would like to seriously argue against these authorities!

My argument is simply this, that a well rounded, person who is secure in their own centre, 
enjoys being selfish because in being so they have a secure sense of self.
They are happy and comfortable with the fact that when they truly love themselves
then they can truly love others without their ego screaming for attention.
That when their inner self is content then they can freely give to others,
not needing a return on the gift, i.e. ‘brownie points’.
If your own inner voice or people around you scream, ‘you’re selfish’, ‘you must share’
 or ‘ you cannot put yourself first’, then you can now recognise these voices as insecure bullies 
that are afraid that you have the confidence that they dare not consider.
These guilt trips are to be recognised as the external pressures of others,
even if you have accepted and internalised these attitudes from the authority figures
of your innocent and gullible youth.
Consider this next thought as a variation of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, which in principle states 
that one must satisfy lower needs before being able to appreciate a higher level need.
So, for that reason, when travelling by air, you are always advised, indeed instructed,
to apply your own oxygen mask before that of your much loved child or fragile baby.
While understanding the cold practicality of this, I feel I would have to fight hard to comply 
with these essential instructions.
Therefore in order to take the ego out of self-centred, self-seeking, self-interested,
then your ‘self’ has to be secure, satisfied and content so that you can go forwards
with the synonyms of philanthropic which are:- generous, big-hearted, altruistic,  benevolent, charitable, giving and good hearted.
Consequently you do not need to grow into the insecure guilt trip of others to avoid being selfish, 
but into the selfishness of completing your inner journey to yourself, that is knowing and accepting yourself and your boundaries, before your can truly let your generosity flow out freely to others.
Being secure in your boundaries also enables you to say. ‘No’, with integrity!
Being unable to say, ‘No’ is also on my Magic Fairy Dust list.
One of the other points of this list is that sometimes I can slip in extra healing
if I know that it is appropriate for you.
Also, it prepares me for the unexpected as your subconscious will work on
what’s appropriate for you, at that time, and maybe not what we set out to
work with that session. Lastly it gives you an opportunity to let me know things you forgot
to mention during the initial consultation.


While hypnotherapy is not magic, it sometimes feels that way.

Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blog www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com 
which takes advantage of the experience and expertise of others.