Saturday, 5 December 2015

10 Lists to Keep If You Want to Be Successful

Wild plumbs are pretty tasteless.

10 Lists to Keep If You Want to Be Successful
Djordje Todorovic

The human mind is truly incredible, and we should all strive towards creating a tenacious memory we can rely on. Many lucrative professions or hobbies require such a trait—
actors, musicians, artists and entertainers in general do countless drills,
just so the required information can be embedded in the memory with certainty.
Clearly numerous doors that lead to a successful future are unlocked if one has a great memory. Although beneficial, it is not an essential ingredient within the success formula—
what you lack in memory can always be compensated with diligence.
Keeping track of crucial elements in your life through list-making is still an unrivalled tactic
for counterbalancing feeble recollection. By utilizing constant reminders,
we can have significantly greater organization, we won’t be under the impression
we have forgotten something, and we will have a clear insight
into which task has a stamp of immediacy attached to it.

Here are ten suggested lists that warrant implementation,
in order to track achievements and nurture ambition.

1. List of Goals
“What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as
what you become by achieving your goals.” —Zig Ziglar

Goals and ambition is what drives us and motivates us, but we need to ask ourselves
what is it that we want in order to feel truly accomplished. Your list of goals should consists
of all the items that you deem are necessary to truly respect yourself. It can be financial stability,
a place you can call your own, starting your family, being independent, etc.
People have different criteria when it comes to goals, and this list in particular is ever-growing;
it changes as you mature, but it always feels great when you cross something out of it.
Without such a list, you lose direction of where your life is heading,
and we all need some inner guidance to focus on—a good reason to get up in the morning.

2. List of Tasks
“Happiness does not come from doing easy work but from the afterglow of satisfaction
that comes after the achievement of a difficult task that demanded our best.”
—Theodore Isaac Rubin

Tasks are actually milestones on the road to goal completion, and these lists
have a tendency to become quite copious. New tasks emerge on a daily basis,
regardless of whether you are an employee, a student, or a freelancer.
Despite the fact that they are arduous, we always have some sense of achievement
once the task is complete, or when a certain problem is solved. By avoiding to make such lists
and lists of our daily tasks, they’ll simply pile up and eventually become a hindrance.
In the event you have larger tasks that need more than a day, a week or a month
before they can be completed, then break those tasks into smaller daily assignments,
and put them on the list as well. As long as you monitor larger tasks while completing minor
daily milestones, you will have a greater grip on progression and continuous source of motivation. List and sticky notes are actually quite potent tools for increase in productivity,
especially while we are working from home.
Lastly, it is worth mentioning that you should also have a list of personal tasks,
or tasks you do for the sake of self-fulfillment. These are related to your personal goals,
and governing passions—writing a book, painting, crafting etc. 
These tasks will define you and offer a much greater sense of achievement,
so give it your all to create something you can be proud of.

3. List of Contacts
“Wishing to be friends is quick work, but friendship is a slow ripening fruit.”
—Aristotle

It would be delusional to assume you can make it all on your own; however, at the same time,
a flawed partnership can result in disastrous outcome as well. It is extremely difficult
to find compatible allies and contacts, since friends and family—in other words,
people close to you—may not be the best choice for a business partner. If you want to enter
into a partnership with someone, make sure the person shares the same vision.
Tread lightly and try to ascertain your potential partner’s level of reliability.
Throughout life, we come across skilful, capable and talented people, whose competence
might be needed in the future, depending on your line of work of course. Do not be hesitant
to offer a helping hand when they are in need, since you can gain a valuable contact.
The point being: make a special list of all important contacts, like reliable programmers, handymen, lawyers, etc. Remember not to only reach out when you are in need.
You need to maintain a healthy and natural relationship and be there for those people
if they require your assistance. Truth be told, it can be arduous to forge strong friendship bonds, but having important acquaintances and becoming an important acquaintance
is very much possible.
Without such a list, you are leaving yourself vulnerable to possible future complications; moreover, make sure this list is well-kept since once you lose a contact like this one,
it can be somewhat troublesome to recover such data. Just be sure you have recovery data tools at your disposal to mitigate the damage if something were to happen to your phone.

4. List of Expenses
“A wise person should have money in their head, but not in their heart.”
—Jonathan Swift

This may be a quite mundane piece of advice, yet it is very often neglected.
As we all know, there are two types of expenses: those that are necessary, (bills, taxes, food)
and those expenditures used for indulging some personal cravings. There is a degree of restraint that the majority of us lack in order to approach the matter with a satisfying level of prudence.
To say it bluntly, we treat our wants like our needs, and necessities and primary obligations
are pushed in the background. Of course, this may sound a bit exaggerated, but the truth is
the pressure of a consumer’s culture eventually becomes overwhelming, resulting in a purchase we shouldn’t be able to afford at the time. This kind of behavior can be avoided by utilizing lists, and turning them into an omnipresent reminder of what is truly important.
By making lists of all the monthly expenses we are obligated to pay, we’ll have a clear overview 
with how much resources are there at our disposal. On the other hand, without this list
filled with meticulous calculations, we are prone to believing that we have more freedom
to engage in a shopping spree, ultimately causing our bills to pile up; thus, we end up 
a step closer to a financial suicide. Handling finances properly, or the fact that we prioritize
the costs of living, is a responsibility that signifies maturity. Success is commonly measured
by the amount of wealth and without adequate spending tactics, you prevent its accumulation.

5. List of Useful Tools
“If you’re the type of person who has to fulfil your dreams,
you’ve got to be resourceful to make sure you can do it.”
—Vin Diesel

Today’s society vastly depends on the use of technology—we exchange information,
conduct calculations, measure time, etc. This level of reliability also suggests liability.
If something were to happen to our cell phone or personal computer,
it would be a sizable setback that could harm our capabilities severely.
As mentioned, losing contacts can truly be troublesome.
It is even worse however, to have your life’s work lost and compromised.
Useful tools are not only limited to recovering damage; they also encompass tools
that make your job easier. With efficiency and a greater level of competence,
you are a step closer toward success. Using the right apps and tools can make up for our lack
of skills in a particular area, or simply help us manage our work in a more timely manner.
Keeping a list of useful tools will come in handy whenever you are faced with
more common problems, like finding a good restaurant for a business dinner,
driving through unfamiliar terrain, task management, learning,
and there are even tools capable of helping you recover stolen property.
Even though the list is not as crucial as the ones mentioned so far, it is undeniable
that having it can save you a lot of time if the need for it ever arises. The Internet is a vast sea
of both useful and useless tools, and by filtering out those that are irrelevant, you won’t
have to conduct countless searches when you are in need of adequate tools for problem solving.

6. List of Self Improvements
“The minute that you’re not learning I believe you’re dead.”
—Jack Nicholson

Reasonable to assume this one is unavoidable, and it always deserves to be mentioned.
It is safe to assume we are all aware of our shortcomings; if not all of them at least some of them. Think about yourself, make a list of all the things you would like to improve or change,
then consider how to implement those changes.
Despite the fact that those who are close to you do not pressure you into changing or improving,
you should always make constant endeavours to do so, for your own sake.
The list of improvements should consist of physical changes, changes spiritual in nature, abandoning bad habits etc. No one expects you to change entirely in a short time period,
but making a decision to change one thing on a yearly basis is a viable resolution,
quite easy to execute. The list is there simply to remind you which improvement to prioritize,
and build up your confidence after each completion.
Refusing to change can either result in lack of confidence and depression,
or becoming an overconfident and self-absorbed person that no one will tolerate for long;
both of these traits are contradictory to your quest for a successful future.

7. List of Creative Ideas
“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.”
—Waldo Emerson

Throughout history, people who made the most significant impact on the world
were those with a revolutionary way of thinking, those who dared to challenge
the established order and alter the status quo. For an idea to be classified as creative,
it needs to be new, it needs to make sense, and it needs to have some sort of use.
For example, creating something to help the disabled communicate online, or simply type—
that way, people who have lost their limbs could blog or become creative writers,
and show the world a piece of their mind. Thus a keyboard in a form of braces
could enable them to type using their tongue; however I am not an engineer,
so I do not know whether something like this is possible.
Whenever a new idea comes to your mind write it down, then browse the web
to see if you indeed have stumbled upon something ground-breaking. Once your list has grown, then you need to start pondering on the subject to see whether it holds closer scrutiny.
Ask for a second opinion and see what you would need to realize your idea. In a majority of cases, this is how successful people are created. Rest assured that it is very possible
that people won’t be impressed with your creativity as much as you are,
but do not allow yourself to be discouraged—after all, perseverance has a crucial role
in a career as well. Monitoring your thoughts incites productive thinking and hones your focus;
it keeps our mind occupied.
Letting your good ideas slide is only a wasted potential that will put your progress in a halt.

8. List of Future Plans
“The future is uncertain but the end is always near.”
―Jim Morrison

We have all heard statements like “Tomorrow is a mystery,” “Live for today,”
and “You can’t affect the future.” Personally, I heavily disagree with such a point of view. 
Although I do agree that, in particular circumstances, making plans for the future
is doing Sisyphus work, not planning it at all seems utterly mortifying. I also believe that everyone makes some sort of plan; the problem is this fear of uncertainty that thwarts our will to act.
To make your resolve more adamant, compile a list of your future plans, see what you need
in order to make them come true. This one is very similar to the first list—the one with goals;
the difference is, it does not have to involve your personal future.
Rather, it is list of upcoming important events, important changes in law, or upcoming trends, useful software, etc. It will keep you well-informed and prepared,
since staying updated and relevant are essential virtues for lucrative businessmen.

9. List of Contingency Plans
“You pray for rain, you gotta deal with the mud too. That’s a part of it.”
—Denzel Washington

Every action has an equal and opposite reaction, meaning there is nothing you can do
without consequences. Every attempt to be more successful usually has a set of barriers
attached to it, or risks. Even though risks are inevitable, being prepared for the aftermath
is always a good and necessary thing. When you plan your business incentives, 
or when you plan to invest in something, make sure you compose a thorough pros and cons list,
as well as a list of possible negative scenarios. In the event that positive aspects
outweigh the negative ones, you can be more encouraged to proceed further.
Make an effort to be constantly prepared for the backlash of major initiatives,
and contain the possible damage. The lack of contingency implies recklessness,
and it was adamantly made clear how this approach contradicts advancement.
Make leaps of faith only when you have no other options to explore.

10. Bucket List
“The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and for deeds left undone.”
—Harriet Beecher Stowe

Finally, learn to live for the sake of experiencing what life has to offer.
It is invigorating, to say the least, and it keeps your regrets at minimum. One of the reasons
why we want to be successful is to actually fulfil our dreams or complete our bucket list,
to look back on our life during old age with a warm smile rather than a frown. Feel free to put even the impossible things on your bucket list, and find the next best thing using your creativity. Whenever you reach a rough patch in your life, take a look at you bucket list
and see what is the most plausible thing to do in order to restore your will power and keep going.
http://www.lifehack.org/283462/10-lists-keep-you-want-successful

You can TCR software and engineering manuals for spontaneous recall – or pass that exam.
I can Turbo Charge Read a novel 6-7 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
I can TCR an instructional/academic book around 20 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube  
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
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To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Wednesday, 2 December 2015

How To Become Successful - The Secrets That Everyone Overlooks



Arnold schwarzenegger:
trust yourself
break the rules
don't fear failure
don't listen to the nay sayers
work your butt off
give back
Leo explains and adds to this list:

You can pre-read all your course material for internal knowing.
I can Turbo Charge Read a novel 6-7 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
I can TCR an instructional/academic book around 20 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube  
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube

Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?

Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
All aspects of regular, each-word reading and education.
Turbo Charged Reading uses these skills significantly faster
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com               Personal business development.
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com        just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Sunday, 29 November 2015

Using TAT for Combat Stress - with Tapas Fleming

Jew's ear. (I don't know why.)



You don't have to re-live anything,
talk about it
think about it
figure anything out 
or analyse it.

You can TCR music, poetry or self development material for internal knowing.
I can Turbo Charge Read a novel 6-7 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
I can TCR an instructional/academic book around 20 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube  
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube

Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?

Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
All aspects of regular, each-word reading and education.
Turbo Charged Reading uses these skills significantly faster
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com               Personal business development.
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com        just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Thursday, 26 November 2015

Metaphors of Movement: Keys to your Inner Experience

High Street Bildeston. UK


Be sure to watch to the end of this video to hear the follow-up story
Mark Andreas got from one of his clients after this presentation.

Taken from a presentation by Mark Andreas at the American Council of Hypnotist Examiner's 2014 Conference, this short introduction gives a glimpse of the power, elegance,
and fun of Andrew T. Austin's Metaphors of Movement method.

As a hypnotherapist and therapist and dream therapist these metaphors are listened to very carefully.
Circles cam be dealt with in a process called Spinning.


You can pre-read all your course material for internal knowing.
I can Turbo Charge Read a novel 6-7 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
I can TCR an instructional/academic book around 20 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube  
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube

Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?

Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
All aspects of regular, each-word reading and education.
Turbo Charged Reading uses these skills significantly faster
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com               Personal business development.
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com        just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Monday, 23 November 2015

10 Things Only Outgoing Introverts Would Understand

Harebell aka Scottish bluebell.

10 Things Only Outgoing Introverts Would Understand
Robert Locke

Introvert or extrovert?
Think of it as a spectrum where you will rarely be at one end or the other.
Most people, researchers say, tend to be somewhere in the middle. They are called ambiverts. Outgoing introverts are certainly in that position but people rarely understand this
and expect people to be either one or the other. The outgoing introvert knows this only too well.

Here are 10 things that they will resonate with because life is not so simple.

1. They feel that extroversion is overdone in our society
They may have done group work at school and team work when employed,
but they feel that quieter time for reflection and the ability to work by themselves
should be more valued in the workplace. They cannot always work in a group or together.

2. They can be the life and soul of the party
Outgoing introverts can be chatty, exuberant, funny and great company at a party.
They will be completely drained afterwards
and may not want to see anyone for a few hours or days!

3. They can make excellent sales persons
Tradition has it that an extrovert is the ideal person to clinch the sale,
but the outgoing introvert has a lot going for them in the sales world it seems.
They know when they should keep quiet and when they should push.
They are also pretty good at tuning into a client’s needs and preferences.

4. They do not enjoy proms
“Everyone shines, given the right lighting. For some, it’s a Broadway spotlight,
for others, a lamplit desk”- Susan Cain author of 
Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking
Being forced to take part in certain rites of passage such as proms is a real turn off
for many outgoing introverts. They would much prefer to stay at home and read a book.

5. They prefer social media
Social media has helped many an outgoing introvert to cope with all the shenanigans.
It is sufficiently social while allowing for quiet downtime with no chatty interruptions.
They do not have to move too far from their comfort zone.
It’s an ideal combination – acting social and being alone!

6. They prefer to be left alone sometimes
This sometimes causes upset when they start to date. They can be chatty and great company
but then they may seem to withdraw into themselves because they do not answer texts or calls. The fact is that their social batteries need recharging and this has to be done alone.

7. They don’t use their phones all the time
One thing you notice about these introverts is that they are deeply focused
and they cannot flit from one chatty remark to a text or a phone call.
Listening and talking are just not compatible with their deep thinking and concentration.

8. They pick and choose their social events
Going out may mean a lot of small talk and that can be pretty meaningless.
Yes, they enjoy company and social outings but you can bet that they will be pretty choosy
when doing so. Other social occasions are sometimes risky and tricky for them.
They may go with the flow or they may appear withdrawn.

9. They value their introversion highly
Silence and moments of quiet are often regarded negatively. Yet, these qualities
have led to great discoveries and advanced our civilization for centuries. The outgoing introvert regards his introversion as a great strength and is perfectly content to be that way.
They get very angry when people start to imply that there is something wrong with them!

10. They find it hard to adapt
Problems arise when they are expected to be outgoing all the time and perform
as if they were circus clowns. They have to do this to get a job, make friends or network.
They know what society demands and expects.
It is not always easy to switch on extroversion like a light.
It’s great being an outgoing introvert 
but wouldn’t it be wonderful if people understood them a bit more?

Let us know in the comments how being an outgoing introvert has made life easy or difficult.
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/10-things-only-outgoing-introverts-would-understand.html


You can TCR software and engineering manuals for spontaneous recall – or pass that exam.
I can Turbo Charge Read a novel 6-7 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
I can TCR an instructional/academic book around 20 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube  
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube

Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?

Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
All aspects of regular, each-word reading and education.
Turbo Charged Reading uses these skills significantly faster
www.ourinnerminds.blogspot.com               Personal business development.
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com        just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”