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Monday, 24 July 2017

5 ways to achieve more balance in your life. Brendan Burchard.

Giant Poppy Cups.




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Tuesday, 18 July 2017

Your Anger is a Guide: Embrace It and Set Yourself Free

Sweet pea decorating a mesh fence.

Your Anger is a Guide: Embrace It and Set Yourself Free
Anne Uemura

“Where there is anger there is always pain underneath.” ~Eckhart Tolle

In the sixth year of marriage, my husband shocked me by telling me that he had decided on
an open marriage. This would give him permission to do what he was already doing, having an affair.
In one of my rare times of anger I argued and struggled with him. I can still see myself hitting him
in the chest as he tried to put his arms around me to reassure me of his love.
As he defended his position, he reminded me that I wasn’t being rational. I stopped protesting because that charge impacted me immediately. Logic and rationality were my guides.
This surge of anger was new in my life. I had learned to bury my feelings, especially anger,
growing up in my Japanese-American family where we hid most emotions.
Adding to pushing down my feelings, I relied on intellect, my head, and dismissed my heart.
When he attacked a vulnerable spot—to be rational—I became silent.
It was the first of three betrayals I lived quietly through over the years.
I swallowed two other screams of “No!” when, over the years, I learned about two other women, 
who intruded not only into my life, but also into my home.

Why would any woman stand for this?
Besides suppressing my emotions, I also learned from a young age to make the needs of the group, the others, more important than my own.
Throughout my life, I let other people’s needs define my life.
I disregarded my anger and I disregarded my needs.

Why Burying Anger is a Recipe for Unhappiness
When you bury anger, more than your anger is involved—you dampen all emotions, including joy.
In my case, I was the model of a well-adjusted successful professional and,
after I divorced my husband, a single mom.
Inside a deep discontent lived undetected in my heart.
It wasn’t until I slowed down in early retirement that I became aware of it.
When you don’t have anger, you may think that there’s nothing wrong with your life.

Why We Often Choose to Bury Our Anger
You learn in childhood that adults don’t like you being angry.
When you throw a temper tantrum, large or small, you get punished for it.
This teaches you that being angry is bad and you should keep it to yourself.
As an adult, when anger gets the best of you and you show it,
people around you don’t respond well to it either.
Some get frightened by anger. Others get defensive or angry in return. Exchanges full of anger
often lead to regret and shame. They can even end a close friendship–a price you don’t want to pay.

Embracing Your Anger Does Not Mean Throwing Tantrums
When you express your anger, you think that you’re right and that the other person or situation needs to change. Or you say regretful, stupid things fueled by anger.
In any case, you believe that someone or something outside you is the cause of your anger.
This stance makes it easy to miss the early signal to go inside and investigate. 
Embracing anger is turning inward to know your heart.
It means spending time with your anger to learn what is under it—what’s really going on.

Treat Every Inner Disturbance as a Clue
Nothing changed in my life until I started to pay attention to all disturbances in peace I experienced, the little irritations, annoyances that were signs of anger.
I began to appreciate whatever anger bubbled up because I saw it as a guide.
Here’s an instance of a little annoyance I would have disregarded earlier in my life. I was talking with my partner on a walk through downtown about some insights I had about an important relationship. He interrupted me to point out how a new hotel construction was being completed,
with details that could be barely seen at night.
I felt disturbed, but instead of just burying that feeling like I normally would, I asked myself
why I felt that way. I realized the annoyance pointed to anger about attention taken away from me. Needing attention from people who matter is a need I have.
If I don’t get the attention, I feel like I don’t matter.
I also recognized that my typical strategy would be to remain silent and let my partner go on.
But instead of being silent, I stepped out of the pattern to speak up and stand with a new belief
that I am important and deserving of attention.
In this instance, once noticing the disturbance and realizing what it meant, I said, “What I’m saying is more important to me than what you’re pointing out that I can see another time.”
My message was accepted with a small apology.
Attuned to the energy of anger, I found it hidden in jealousy, envy, blame, frustration, disappointment, regret, withdrawal, stubbornness, and shame.
I even found it in my lack of kindness in talking to my partner, my banging cupboard doors,
my prolonged silence, and my criticism and judgment of others.
When you follow each sign of anger you will find what is buried in your heart.
You will discover what you need to resolve lifelong patterns that limited your growth.
Through Your Anger You Discover Your Needs, Beliefs, and Strategies
I began to know and honor the needs underlying my anger,
such as my needs for acknowledgement and attention as I describe above.
I also realized I had many limiting beliefs that stemmed back to my childhood,
when my needs weren’t met. This is where my feeling of not mattering came from,
but now I could recognize it and deal with it.
Related to these beliefs I also saw the variety of limiting strategies I adopted trying to get these needs met. Some of these were being an over-achiever, a perfectionist, and overly self-reliant.
To illustrate, I recently felt angry when I didn’t make the cut in auditioning for a voice ensemble.  When I stayed with my anger, I found the pain of a wounded young-child who believed 
she wasn’t worthy, and saw clearly her strategies of people-pleasing
and over-achieving that failed to get her what she wanted.
Not only does your anger guide you to your needs but it helps you recognize the limiting beliefs
and strategies that run your life. These were created and adopted early in childhood
by a very young child and their limitations deserve examination.

Deeply Exploring Your Anger Involves a Commitment
Taking full advantage of honoring your anger
involves taking the time to begin a process of discovery.
This means remembering to remain the adult compassionate witness to what is there,
and not identifying with or be taken over by the anger,
and finally remaining with the anger long enough until you drop into what is beneath it.
You may discover child-like vulnerability, fears, helplessness, and pain.
When you integrate with lost parts of you, you deconstruct the patterns that run your life
and free your original innocent heart to shine through.

You are Richly Rewarded for Embracing Anger
When you are one with your heart, you know not only your needs for safety, love
and community but your deep longings for meaning and purpose.
You consciously make choices true to your heart.
Then your heart opens—to love more and deeply; to reveal its wisdom; to see the world
as an innocent child; to be present and accepting for all that shows up; and much more.
Embracing anger may be counter-intuitive,
but in doing so you become aware of old, unconscious reactive patterns.
In becoming aware of these patterns you free yourself to choose from a place of power.
Fully in your power you allow yourself to be fully present to experience life
from the only moment you ever have—this present moment.
 https://tinybuddha.com/blog/anger-is-a-guide-embrace-set-yourself-free/

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The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Wednesday, 12 July 2017

Energy Healing Techniques: KEY TO POWERFUL ENERGY HEALING (Jerry Sargeant)

Fancy ferns on the doorstep. 


Jerry Sargeant shares how important temperature control is during an energy healing session.
This energy healing technique is mission critical if you want to be an extraordinary energy healer
and work with star magic energy healing techniques.
If your body becomes too hot it can have detrimental side effects to the energy healer
and is less effective for the human being on the receiving end of the energy healing session.
Star Magic is the most powerful energy healing modality on the planet.
You can find out more about Star Magic Energy Healing here: htp://thefacilitatorhealing.com

Turbo Charged Reading: Read more>>>Read fast>>>Remember all>>>Years later
Contact M’reen at: read@turbochargedreading.com

You can TCR specialist and language dictionaries that are spontaneously accessed.
I can Turbo Charge Read a novel 6-7 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
I can TCR an instructional/academic book around 20 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube 
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube

Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?

Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
All aspects of regular, each-word reading and education.
Turbo Charged Reading uses these skills significantly faster
www.ourbusinessminds.blogspot.com                       development, growth, www.mreenhunthappyartaccidents.blogspot.com      just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”

Thursday, 6 July 2017

YOU ARE NOT DEPRESSED, STOP IT!

hardheads aka knapweed with visitor.



Turbo Charged Reading: Read more>>>Read fast>>>Remember all>>>Years later
Contact M’reen at: read@turbochargedreading.com

You can TCR specialist and language dictionaries that are spontaneously accessed.
I can Turbo Charge Read a novel 6-7 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
I can TCR an instructional/academic book around 20 times faster and remember what I’ve read.
Introduction to Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
A practical overview of Turbo Charged Reading YouTube 
How to choose a book. A Turbo Charged Reading YouTube
Emotions when Turbo Charged Reading YouTube

Advanced Reading Skills Perhaps you’d like to join my FaceBook group ?

Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
All aspects of regular, each-word reading and education.
Turbo Charged Reading uses these skills significantly faster
www.ourbusinessminds.blogspot.com                       development, growth, www.mreenhunthappyartaccidents.blogspot.com      just for fun.

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”